Pressing play counts
The first call is the hard one. murmur treats starting it as a win, and the feedback says what went well before it says what to change.
If you hate calling doctors, offices, customer service, landlords or recruiters, start with one call where nothing is at stake.
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book a table for two on friday.
book a table for two on friday.
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feedback
call ended that's one call rehearsed. in the app, this is where you'd get feedback on how it went.murmur
you've had today's call. the app has many more scenarios, calls up to 30 minutes, and feedback after each one.murmur
the call needs your microphone. allow it from the icon in your address bar, then try again. nothing is recorded.murmur
the line's busy. try again later, or call from the app now.A real call, up to 3:00. Uses your microphone. Your voice is streamed live and never recorded.
A lot of us grew up texting everything. So when it's time to make a call, the brain goes blank. You can't edit a call, you can't see the other person, and you don't know what they'll say next.
That last part does most of the damage. Most phone anxiety comes from not knowing what the other person will say.
Difficult calls go badly because the real call is your first draft. You say the worst version of it, because you have never said it out loud before. Rehearsing makes the real call the second or tenth draft.
Pick a call with one clear goal and a friendly person on the other end. These are marked easy in murmur:
The first call is the hard one. murmur treats starting it as a win, and the feedback says what went well before it says what to change.
The home screen has a breathing exercise for the minute before a real call. Tomorrow's Call lets you commit to one call, warm up for it, and say afterwards whether you made it.
The first sentence is the hardest to get out. Write it down, then practice saying it. Every scenario shows what you'll practice before the call begins.
murmur is practice, not treatment. If anxiety is getting in the way of daily life, talk to a doctor or a therapist.
A text can be edited before you send it. A call happens live, with no face to read and no way to know what the other person will say next. Most of the fear sits in that unknown.
It removes the unknown. Once you have heard a version of what the other person says and answered it out loud, the real call is a repeat rather than a first attempt.
An easy one with a clear goal, such as booking a table or a haircut. murmur marks its gentlest scenarios as easy.