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Ask someone out

Take the leap and ask someone on a date with confidence.

the scenario
easySocialwith Jordan
try to:
  • Make your interest clear
  • Suggest a specific activity
  • Give them an easy out if they're not interested
  • Stay calm and positive
rehearse this call in murmur
Before a call: the scenario 'ask boss for time off' with three things to try, while the call connects

How the call starts

In murmur, Jordan picks up. This is the first thing you hear, and a line you can answer with.

them

Oh hey! Good timing - I was just thinking about you. What's up?

you

hey, i was wondering if you'd want to grab coffee sometime

What to cover

  1. Make your interest clear
  2. Suggest a specific activity
  3. Give them an easy out if they're not interested
  4. Stay calm and positive

Write these down before you dial. Build a script for this call with your own details.

Rehearse it once first

Reading a checklist is the easy part. Saying it to someone who answers back is where calls go wrong. In murmur you make this call out loud, the other side reacts, and afterwards you see which of these goals you hit.

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Rehearse the call before you dial

murmur is on the App Store, for iPhone.

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