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Share big news with your parents

Say the thing you've been rehearsing in the shower for weeks.

the scenario
mediumPersonalwith Mom
try to:
  • Actually say the news, early
  • Answer their first questions honestly
  • Hold your ground if they worry
  • End the call feeling heard
rehearse this call in murmur
Before a call: the scenario 'ask boss for time off' with three things to try, while the call connects

How the call starts

In murmur, Mom picks up. This is the first thing you hear, and a line you can answer with.

them

Hi, sweetheart! What a nice surprise. How are you?

you

hey... so, i have some news

What to cover

  1. Actually say the news, early
  2. Answer their first questions honestly
  3. Hold your ground if they worry
  4. End the call feeling heard

Write these down before you dial. Build a script for this call with your own details.

Rehearse it once first

Reading a checklist is the easy part. Saying it to someone who answers back is where calls go wrong. In murmur you make this call out loud, the other side reacts, and afterwards you see which of these goals you hit.

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Rehearse the call before you dial

murmur is on the App Store, for iPhone.

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