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Confront a cheating partner

Address infidelity or betrayal in your relationship directly.

the scenario
hardPersonalwith Charlie
try to:
  • Present what you know calmly
  • Ask for the full truth
  • Express how it makes you feel
  • Decide what you need next
  • Stand firm in your worth
rehearse this call in murmur
Before a call: the scenario 'ask boss for time off' with three things to try, while the call connects

How the call starts

In murmur, Charlie picks up. This is the first thing you hear.

them

Hey... okay, I'm here. You sounded serious. What's going on?

What to cover

  1. Present what you know calmly
  2. Ask for the full truth
  3. Express how it makes you feel
  4. Decide what you need next
  5. Stand firm in your worth

Write these down before you dial. Build a script for this call with your own details.

Rehearse it once first

Reading a checklist is the easy part. Saying it to someone who answers back is where calls go wrong. In murmur you make this call out loud, the other side reacts, and afterwards you see which of these goals you hit.

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Rehearse the call before you dial

murmur is on the App Store, for iPhone.

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